Do you know what’s the best way to know if you have gotten over an ex? Talk to them. Talk to them about someone they’re seeing. If you genuinely feel happy for you ex, and smile with the way they talk about their new relationship because you think it’s cute, then you’re over them. But if you feel even the smallest tingle of jealousy, sadness, or overwhelmed, chances are you still have feelings for that person. Act accordingly.